calender blues

i often wonder why cant we know the date of our death, i mean it's coming every year ,every year we live through that date never knowing what it's gonna bring one day-then again imagine there are three-sixty-five days in a year and if we count our dear ones they may cross one hundrd mark- oh no --will every third day in a calender be somebody's death date-
this is the irony of time, when we are young we have only birthdays, or some other dates of our firsts(!) to rmember and as the years go by we have to live through these tragic dates